Love and relationships are the most complex and challenging readings that I give here at Elizabeth Rose because many of us struggle to contemplate the “truth” of the issues we face in our relationships.
I feel it is relevant to discuss how to know if you are in a “toxic” relationship. If the person you are with asks you “to date other people as you will never be exclusive”, “not to contact” or “walks out of your shared home to be with someone else” then this is a toxic relationship!
The by-product of being involved in a toxic relationship over time is that you can become a “victim” of the negative or disrespectful behaviour being displayed. Often, when I give a love reading and link into this energy I am aware that the person is so used to being treated with such a lack of respect that they are surprised to realise that they have been putting up with negativity for so long.
An honest and empowering love reading allows us to hold a mirror up to our lives and then change things for the better. Love readings should always be empowering and we should always be willing to embrace change! Often, we accept second rate relationships because it is easier or we do not have the courage to walk away. I always say to my clients “Does this person make you feel valued, secure, balanced and happy?” – if not, walk away. Not to be dramatic but because this is not your soulmate connection. We must remember that by staying in an unfulfilled relationship it is damaging to our own health and well-being.
I am a great believer that the most empowering love relationship that you ever have in life should be with…….. yourself! Always remember that integrity matters – nurturing and caring for yourself first means that when you do find your soulmate you will be loved for who you are – You will not have to change to be someone that you’re not.
I am always happy when my clients return to thank me for a love reading that has changed their lives and they have found the happiness they truly deserve.